I seen on the news that they USPS and UPS is going to keep most mail that doesn't have return addresses on them, mail that says "resident" or doesn't have a name for the person receiving, blah blah blah...anything that doesn't look normal...so i suggest you just tell them ur first initial and last name...or just a nick name or something made up, just as long as it's a full name...
if all else fails, don't have seeds sent when you have a previous grow in progress...wait until it's done and store your equipment until you get ur seeds...that way if they are found in the mail, you can deny ordering or sending off for them...there is no proof that you did it, so there should be no worry...
I still plan on putting my order in for BlueBerry, Afghani, Northern Lights, Chronic, and Big Bud after my one bag seed plant is done...
Peacefully
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Sell_R